Fr. Nivin's Homily Blog

 "Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives should be subordinate to their husbands as to the Lord." I chose this phrase to preach, knowing it might meet with some resistance, even rejection from some of you. When this same passage appears in Sunday readings, there’s even an option to use a shorter form that would avoid these verses. Why? Because the teaching of subordination is hard to accept, and the preaching of it is even harder. Being obedient or subordinate to someone is challenging, even if under authority. And to expect a woman, especially a modern, independent and self-assured American woman, to be subordinate to her husband, is like declaring war. This resistance is not just in spousal relationships. Sometimes, it seems like the only “person” who obeys my commands perfectly is my phone – Google Assistant. ‘She’ is most obedient, ever ready to satisfy and please, always responds politely and would do whatever I ask, and without delay. Google As...

"Through him, the whole structure is held together and grows into a temple sacred in the Lord." In this letter to the Ephesians, St. Paul described the community of believers like a physical sacred temple, thus the people are the church. The structure of the church, which refers to the faith of the believers, are held together by Christ, and grows in holiness with the Lord. Christ is the cornerstone, the apostles are the foundation and we, the believers, are the different parts of the temple. We look to the time of the apostles as the "golden age" of the Church — a period when it was growing fast and flourishing. But even then, the Church faced external persecutions and internal divisions arising from cultural, social, historical and personal differences. Today’s church is not much better, if not worse. In the first 300 years, there was only one Church. Then the first division separated into the Catholic and the Orthodox Christianity. Then came the Reformation which...

 "Take courage; get up, Jesus is calling you." Bartimaeus was blind and a beggar, someone whom society had ignored, forgotten and cast aside. Bartimaeus had no status, no rights, nothing. But Bartimaeus had faith.  He believed that this Jesus whom he had heard so much about, could do for him what others could not do. He was so sure thus he did not hesitate to call out to Jesus who was walking by. Not once, but repeatedly. Even when others told him to stop, to keep silent, he cried out louder. Jesus heard his cry, his desperate plea for mercy. Jesus saw his sincere persistence and responded to him. "Take courage; get up, Jesus is calling you." And what Bartimaeus do? “He threw aside his cloak, sprang up, and came to Jesus.” Bartimaeus was spontaneous and immediate in his response. His cloak was the only thing he had, which gave him protection and security. But at the call of Jesus, he threw it aside and came to Jesus, he did not hesitate at all to detach from his one...

 "…that you…may have strength to comprehend with all the holy ones what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God." I love this passage very much. In my native language, it is expressed even more beautifully, and I have cherished it in my heart since young. Can we ever fully comprehend the love of God? I don’t think we can ever grasp even a fraction of it. His love is immensely wide, long, high and deep, it surpasses all knowledge and understanding, beyond our imagination. How do we even begin to understand something so vast?  Let’s look at how today’s first reading started: "I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named." To kneel before God is probably one of the first and best way to start to know Him. It is said that St. Thomas Aquinas learned more theology on his knees than from books. And Blessed Archbishop F...

 “Brothers and sisters: You were at that time without Christ, alienated from the community of Israel and strangers to the covenants of promise, without hope and without God in the world.” What does it mean to be ‘without Christ’? St. Paul says it means to be ‘alienated’, a ‘stranger’, ‘without hope and without God’. To me, that means being lost, no goal, no direction, no purpose, no reason to exist. Have you ever experienced being lost? When I was in third grade, my family went on a Marian pilgrimage to Tamil Nadu, which is quite far away from our home. Some families from our neighborhood went also. There were thousands of other pilgrims at the site, all of us on the same path were moving along, packed against one another, like a giant river of people. My parents gave strict orders to hold on to each other’s hands tight and not to let go nor stray away from each other.  I was holding on to my papa’s hand, but the crowd was pushing so much that at one point, I lost my grip and ...

 He asked himself, ‘What shall I do, for I do not have space to store my harvest?’ The rich man in Jesus’ parable had a wonderful problem. His harvest is so abundant that his existing storehouse was not big enough for it. It was time for expansion! He will get wealthier! Thus, he thought to himself, “…you have so many good things stored up for many years, rest, eat, drink, be merry!”’ Isn’t that what most of us plan for ourselves? To earn as much as possible as soon as possible, so that we can retire early and enjoy the rest of our lives. Many people believe that having enough wealth will bring them happiness, so they focus on accumulating and protecting their possessions and wealth. The problem with this rich man is not his wealth, nor about the abundant harvest he was having, but about what was dominating his life. The problem was not what he possessed, but what was possessing him. Greed possessed him, and determined his decisions, plans and actions. There was no room for thanksg...

 “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has similarly been tested in every way, yet without sin.” This verse from today’s second reading is both beautiful and powerful. It tells us profoundly of the deep compassion of God for His people through the sacrificial priesthood of Christ. Someone who has gone through suffering can surely better understand and empathize with the sufferings of others. When I minister to parishioners whose family members have passed on, I can feel their pain because I too have lost my beloved parents. I know a couple who lost their beloved son unexpectedly while he was in college. It took them a long time to overcome the pain and sorrow of loss. Eventually, they started a ministry in their parish to help others who were also grieving the loss of loved ones. Their suffering enabled them to offer comfort, consolation and companionship to others in similar situations. Our high priest Jesus Christ is not on...

 “That you may know what is the hope that belongs to His call.” What is His call? God called us into life, but not just a life of mere breathing and living. St. Paul, in his letter to the Ephesians, reminds us that “(God) chose us in Him, before the foundation of the world, to be holy and without blemish before Him.” To be holy and blameless before God, this is His call for us. Then what is our hope? Every one of us has hopes for much in life. We hope for betterment, fulfillment and achievement in various aspects of our living.  In the last three years here, I have learned a lot about hope. Hearing stories of our refugee communities, about their journey from one end of the world to the other, how they survived in refugee camps, their perseverance through wars and injustices, and despite all these challenges, they never lost hope that life would get better, days will be brighter. And in many ways, their prayers have been answered now that they have settled here. They did not ho...

 “The harvest is abundant, but the laborers are few; so ask the master of the harvest to send out laborers for his harvest.” We are the in the harvesting season.  Back in my homeland, the harvesting season was always a super busy period, because we had to work very fast to take in the harvest within a few days. so that we don’t lose the crops. We would look for extra laborers during that season to help us get the job done on time. More laborers meant a bigger harvest. Here in this land, harvesting is done in quick time without the need for extra laborers. On a few occasions, my farmer friends have invited me to ride with them in their combine to go around their farms. I saw how with technology, hundreds of acres of crops can be harvested within just a few hours. Jesus sees this world like a huge farm. With the effective planting of seeds by His apostles and the church, and the nurture of the Holy Spirit, it can yield plentiful fruits. When it is time for harvesting, He will ne...

 “Indeed, the word of God is living and effective, sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating even between soul and spirit, joints and marrow, and able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart.” Is the word of God living and effective in your life? This is my personal Bible. It is in Malayalam, my native language. My papa bought it for me on June 7, 2003, two days before I turned 15 years old. It has been with me ever since. It accompanied me through all my seminary years even when in Rome. I’ve read it many, many times. If you receive a beautiful letter from someone you love, wouldn’t you read it over and over, many times? I’ve used my Bible to pray, to praise God, to seek His advice, and to learn more about Him. When I was younger, I had the habit of memorizing a verse from the Bible every day. Over that time, I have memorized hundreds of passages. In our family, everyone, as well as my parents, had their own personal Bible. My family still keeps my grandpa’s Bible, wh...

“For you are all one in Christ Jesus.” Over the past few days, we have been reading from the letters of St. Paul to the Galatians. Today’s reading we see him pleading with the community to be united in Christ.  What is happening to the Galatian community? Didn’t we read in Acts of the Apostles, “All the believers were one in heart and mind”? That was how the early Christians lived during the Pentecostal event despite strong persecution. But the Galatians were living differently. It seemed that their society then, like ours today, was greatly divided, separated by ethnicity, social status, gender discrimination, and differences in culture and tradition. St. Paul emphasized and reminded them that they are ‘all one in Christ Jesus’. What about our society? Recent surveys show that more than 80% of Americans feel that the country is more divided than united. Although we are a Christian nation, we are polarized in our political stands, religious views and many other life issues. At St. ...

"But when He, who from my mother’s womb had set me apart and called me through His grace, was pleased to reveal His Son to me, so that I might proclaim Him to the Gentiles." St. Paul’s conversion always gives us hope. A persecutor who became a preacher. His transformation was a miracle. Yes, nothing is impossible for God. Paul went around to preach and proclaim what he previously persecuted and sought to prevent its spread. What struck me deeply is Paul’s belief that “from my mother’s womb, He had set me apart and called me.” That means that the very purpose of his existence was not to persecute the Christians, but to preach the Good News to the Gentiles. St. Paul was born for this, to be an apostle to the Gentiles and an author for nearly 25% of the New Testament books. When he realized his true calling, he embraced it fully and excelled in it. That is why he said, “Woe to me if I do not preach the Gospel.” His life would have been meaningless and purposeless if he did not f...

"And coming to her, he said, 'Hail, full of grace! The Lord is with you.'" I have seen this many times – one of our catechists holding up a rosary in her hand and asking the kids, “What is this?” When they respond, “It’s a rosary,” she would add, “This is a weapon to fight against the evil one.” How true! But have you ever wondered how does a rosary become a weapon against Satan? When Jesus was tempted in the wilderness, He used the Word of God to counter the temptations presented by the evil one. Satan is afraid of the Word of God. And when we pray the rosary, we are repeating the Word of God, bead after bead, don’t we? Hail, full of grace! The Lord is with you. The “Hail Mary” is a prayer woven beautifully with the words of Scripture, and the “Our Father” is the prayer that Jesus Himself taught us, straight from the Bible. These are prayers recited repeatedly in the rosary. The rosary is thus a deeply biblical prayer which anyone can pray, and anytime we can recall ...

 “Thus the LORD blessed the latter days of Job more than his earlier ones. For he had fourteen thousand sheep, six thousand camels, a thousand yoke of oxen, and a thousand she-asses.” That’s a lot of livestock! Maybe not for American farmers, but I think Job’s property was huge. When I first came to Iowa, people would ask me about my parents and their lives. When I talked about our family farm back in India, they would naturally imagine it like an American farm, and I didn’t think too much about it. My family farm was considered one of the larger ones in my area, though it was just 10 acres of land, every inch of it was cultivated. We had five cows, a few goats, and a dozen chickens, which was more than enough to sustain our family of 11. Only later did I realize that an average American farm can be 500 to 1,000 acres, and their livestock can number hundreds or thousands. In comparison, Job’s household was much larger, after God restored more than all that Job lost earlier in his l...