Homily: December 28, 2025, Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph (Dreams)

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 “The angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, ‘Rise, take the child and his mother, flee to Egypt, and stay there until I tell you.’”

As a young man, Joseph must have had beautiful dreams about his future family. He could have imagined a helpful and capable wife, children playing around the house and growing up to be well respected people in the community, a vision of a stable and peaceful life. When he got engaged to Mary, it seemed like his dreams would become reality soon.

Many of us, married or not, can identify with the dreams that Joseph could have had. Yet like Joseph, the realities of our lives would have unfolded quite differently from how we have dreamt it.

Joseph’s family life turned out totally unlike his own dreams, yet he continued to dream, now with God’s will revealed and God’s plan unfolding in the reality of his life.

The hardship he went through in Bethlehem, with the birth of Jesus, did not end there. Today’s Gospel shows another unexpected challenge: Joseph was told in the middle of the night, to take the mother and child to flee to a foreign land for their safety. What lay ahead was uncertain. Joseph had to stop dreaming his dreams but trust and follow God’s plan completely.

Many of us might have also experienced how life events can surprise us and change everything. We might think we have everything all planned out and under control in our lives: school, career, friends, family, health etc. But often in just one twist of events, we could lose all control. We may even face the real situation of losing our homes, and having to flee our familiar world, like Joseph.

Many of us who came as refugees, know what it means to flee from your home and country, to start over again in a strange land, to live with uncertainty without security, and yet trust that God is in the same boat, present to us in the journey and has everything under control.

The Holy Family understands this deeply. They were not spared from the hardships of life. The most perfect family in history had lived through danger, rejection, misunderstanding, displacement, poverty, fear, and sorrow. Their sufferings were not signs of failure, they were part of God’s mysterious plan. It is a privilege to be part of this mysterious plan, as God can use them to purify,  strengthen, and guide us and our families along His path.

It is not all roses and thorns, in fact, I would say for many of us, life had more thorns than roses. Every family has their own combinations of thorns. As we have benefitted from the prayers of others, we too want to pray for families who suffer in different ways:

• for homes where children have never known ‘love’

• for children who are unwanted, abandoned, or threatened before birth

• for families broken and divided because of sin, injustice, selfishness, or confusion

• for those who do not understand God’s plan for marriage and family life

We do not pray with judgement in our hearts, we pray in compassion, truth, and hope. Because when families are weakened, society weakens. 

The Church calls the family the “domestic church.” Holy families build holy parishes; holy parishes build a holy Church and a renewed world. 

Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, please watch over our families. Please grant us the grace of fiath  families, parents, bless children, heal wounds, and bring peace to every home.

Holy Family of Nazareth, pray for us. Amen.


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