Homily: July 18, 2023, Tuesday of the Fifteenth Week in Ordinary Time (Be real )

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 Pharaoh's daughter said to her, "Take this child and nurse it for me, and I will repay you." The woman, therefore, took the child and nursed him. When the child grew, she brought him to Pharaoh's daughter.

Pharaoh’s daughter took the child to be her son but unknowingly, asked the real mother to nurse him. To save the boy’s life, the real mother nursed her own son to be given to Pharoah’s daughter.

For more than thirty years thereafter, Moses lived in the palace. Did Pharaoh’s daughter know the real Moses?

Do we know our real self?

I think our parents and siblings, the people whom we grew up with, would know us better than anyone, maybe better than ourselves. Especially our siblings, we cannot hide much from them. They know all our tricks in the dark, the things which we hide so well from our parents.

Even now, when I visit and stay with my sisters, they often comment that I am still the same naughty Nivin from our childhood days, despite my efforts to act cool and behave like a grown-up man. To them, I have not changed at all.

They know me so well, and I know them too. We are so familiar with one another that we can be free to be our real selves.

Moses was nursed by his own mother in the first years of his life, his worldview and values would have been shaped by her. He would have enjoyed the love and affection from his siblings in those critical years, those bonds were strong. 

His years in the palace of Pharaoh after that could not replace nor reverse the reality of his identity, his heart was with his own people.

Thus in Hebrews 11:24-25, it is written, "By faith, Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be known as the son of Pharaoh's daughter. He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin."

He knew who he really was, he could not deny the truth and he chose to be authentic, to be real.

God knows the truth about us. He knows the real us, there is no way to hide from Him, there is no need to. He accepts us for who we are, we are lovingly created by Him.

He brought us to being and molded us through all the events of our life, to one day, become, fully and truly, the image and likeness of Him.

So, in our prayers and quiet time with God, let us come to Him without pretense, without fear. Be comfortable with Him, be confident in His love, be real. Amen.


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