Homily: December 25, 2025, The Nativity of the Lord (Christmas)

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 “So they went in haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the Infant lying in the manger.”

Today we hear the beautiful story of the shepherds visiting the newborn Christ. They found not only a Child, but a family. God sent His Son into the world not as a warrior or a king, but into the care of a mother and a father. Into a home. Into love.

And what kind of family did God choose?

Not a wealthy family.

Not a powerful family.

Not a comfortable family.

Mary and Joseph had no room in the inn. Mary gave birth in poverty. Joseph struggled to provide safety and shelter. Their situation was not easy there was fear, uncertainty, and hardship.

Yet God entrusted His Son to them.

Even if they lacked material comfort, Jesus never lacked what mattered most: a loving mother and a caring father.

As God wanted His Son to have a holy family, so too God wants every child to experience a holy, loving, safe family. Today we look around and see many broken families, many homes burdened with pain, absence, division, or wounds. Children who never truly receive the security of a father’s love or the tenderness of a mother’s care.

Christmas is not just about lights, gifts, and decorations. Christmas is a time to reflect on our own families.

It does not matter if we are rich or poor, educated or not. Every parent, every household, can choose love… patience… faithfulness… and mercy. Holiness in the family is not about perfection it is about commitment, sacrifice, and trust in God.

Mary and Joseph show us what this looks like. Mary was young and faced motherhood under difficult circumstances. Joseph was a man caught between law, responsibility, and unbelievable events. They did not understand everything fully. Yet they trusted God more than their fear. Scripture tells us:

“Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.”

She trusted even when she did not fully understand.

Joseph obeyed even when the road ahead was unclear.

Is that not our experience, too? In our families, we often move forward with more faith than certainty, more trust than clarity. We do not always know what God is doing, but we walk with Him.

The Church constantly reminds us that the family is sacred. St. Francis of Assisi once said: “Every home should be a Bethlehem.”

Every home should be a place where Christ is born again, where love lives, where forgiveness is practiced, where faith breathes. 

Families  are under spiritual attack today. Satan knows that if he can destroy the family, he can weaken hearts, children, and even society. That is why Christmas calls us back to the strength and holiness of family life.

So today, as we stand before the manger, let us pray:

• For our families—those strong and those struggling.

• For parents who are tired, overwhelmed, or carrying hidden burdens.

• For children longing for love and safety.

• For healing where there is division.

• For hope where there is discouragement.

May your home be a Bethlehem. May Christ be at the heart of your family. May your home be a place where love is born, where faith is lived, and where God is truly welcomed. Merry Christmas, and may the Holy Family bless your family today. 


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